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I saw a ladybug and it changed my life


I saw a ladybug today, and the last few days actually. It’s been living on my kitchen window ledge.

In my family, maybe in yours too, I learned that ladybugs are good luck. So when I saw it, I was pleasantly excited for the luck that would happen in the next few days.

A few days came, and passed. Nothing particularly lucky happened. In fact, I ended up spending the night in the emergency room, shattered my phone screen, got a parking ticket, and stained my new shirt. “Damn,” I thought, “when is that luck going to kick in?”

A couple days later, ladybug still crawling on the window, I went to work. After walking inside I was greeted with a note from my boss with a little bit of cash to say I could get a cookie and a hot chocolate from the cafe across the street. AND as a bonus, we got to decorate for Christmas. Thanks, ladybug. Best day ever.

Then I realized I forgot to pay for parking again. I waited anxiously to close so I could pull the ticket off my windshield. We walked out, no ticket in sight.

Thanks again, mister ladybug!

I started thinking I was lucky for a lot of things. Lucky I had good doctors who healed me up fast and lucky I had a safe car to get parking tickets on. I was lucky to have a warm house to come home to and lucky I had a cookie for breakfast at work.

It kind of hit me that we don’t really need a ladybug to feel like something good is about to happen. We don’t need wishbones or 11:11, we don’t need fortune cookies or four leaf clovers or any of that. Sure, they remind us to think about what is to come...

But what is to come is...already on its way.

Imagine this. You’re at a restaurant and you order food and you see your waiter coming out, hands full, headed towards you. You know this is a sign that your food is about to come to your table. But the fact is that you already ordered it. It was coming anyways, that’s undeniable. The waiter just signaled to you “yoohoo, incoming food!”

That’s like how the ladybug says, “hey, you’ve got good things coming your way.” They’re already coming. You just needed to be reminded to have hope.

Now this is a glimmer of hope that I hold on to. I remind myself that luck is already manifested in my place in the universe. It’s coming. Some days I don’t see a ladybug, most days in fact. But what’s crazy is that even after the hospital, and the phone screen, and ticket, and everything else bad, I held out hope for my luck to arrive because the ladybug told me it would. It made the bad things more bearable.

So here I am, being YOUR ladybug, telling you that umm HELLO!!! Good things are coming your way!! I promise that four gazillion times over. And even if that annoying Karen hurts your feelings at work or you lose your credit card at the mall, your hot chocolate & cookie, Christmas decorating day is coming.


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